Category Archives: Love


“Should I look for spiritual love, or material, or physical? Don’t ask yourself this question. Discrimination leads to discrimination. Love doesn’t need any name, category or definition. Love is a world itself. Either you are in, at the center. Either … Continue reading

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A while back, I wrote a blog about long term commitment and how most men, including myself, had issues with the idea of being strapped to someone for many years. Well…now another issue arises in the extreme opposite spectrum (like … Continue reading

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Dear Diary

18…naïve…and confused. My first (to be) love had just opened himself up to me and my emotions were running wild. Emotions I was not “supposed” to have – an attraction to another man. What else could I do but question … Continue reading

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Love After Love

Do you believe in it? Love after love. Cher sure did. After three long years of searching for a guy who’d make it past the third date, I finally found him. We had great chemistry, enjoyed each other’s company and … Continue reading

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The Wonders of Online Dating

  For those of us who don’t live in major cities, our homes nestled in the suburbs far away from the liberal life of urbana, gay bars, festivals, and other social gatherings, there aren’t many opportunities to meet gay men … Continue reading

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Killing Me Softly

  Love at first sight? Doesn’t exist. Nope. Soul mates? A bedtime story for teenage girls. One’s first love, however, unforgettable. It’s been three years since my first love, in my friend’s case, four. We’re both equally over our ex’s … Continue reading

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Five Ways to Get Over a Breakup

In my three years of singledom, I’ve seen six of my friends go through hard breakups. With each one of them it frustrated me to see them go through the same cycle that I went through, making the same mistakes, … Continue reading

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