Author Archives: thepersiancloset

About thepersiancloset

Hey there! I'm a gay Iranian-American raised in the US, studying Dentistry and hoping to open up my own practice some day. Being brought up in a Persian household proved (and proves!) to be difficult when my very liberal gay self clashes with the more conservative members of the household. Follow me on a week to week journey of growing up Gay in the Persian closet!

Better with Age

Ok I admit it, I have a soft spot for older men. And I think lots of girls and gay guys are on the same page as me when I say – some of the hottest guys around are 40+ … Continue reading

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Of Dolmas and Deities

In the United States, we see an array of personas on television, from religious leaders to talk show hosts who spout on and on about sex, to homosexual men like Nate Berkus who give decoration and cooking tips. All of … Continue reading

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White Washed

I’ve noticed that in the mainstream realm of gay men in the United States, there seems to be this unspoken “ideal” for the gay man and a prejudice which follows for those who differ from the ideal. Who is the … Continue reading

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Ringing in the Iranian New Year

  For over two thousand years the people of the Silk Road have been celebrating Nowruz, meaning “New Day” in Persian, on the Spring Equinox. Nowruz today is celebrated by over 300 million people world wide, mostly in the former … Continue reading

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Hi, my name is ________. And I’m a Second Class Citizen.

Yup, that’s what my name tag reads. Why you ask? When trying to go out with friends and meet new guys, I’m pressured into going to a bar specifically for Gays, because my straight compatriots can’t stand the sight of … Continue reading

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Hate

It’s such a strong word. And yet we use it so frequently. I hate broccoli. I hate running. I hate chic flicks. I hate cats! So is it any surprise that we use it also so frequently on people? I … Continue reading

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the Division

In the world of gay men, there are two major schools of thought: You’re either an activist,  proud, open, and spend most of your weekends out and about in gay bars. Or you’re in the closet, and I mean DEEP … Continue reading

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No to Nooks: Why Books Are Better

Tablets are all the craze now days, and why wouldn’t they be: combine the technology of Smartphones with your favorite literature and you might actually make reading look ‘cool.’ Even people who don’t usually read now all of a sudden … Continue reading

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